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Offline Chancyboo

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #20 on: July 30, 2013, 02:23:18 pm »
This is my 4th time around... and as Tim says I also got divorced here in the states. I did all the paperwork myself. Then husband was in Canada>. Damn Nigerian Scammer...OOPS!!!  TMI!!!!!!
Met SO- June 8 2010
MARRIED- MAY 3 2011
10/14/2011-I-130 SENT USPS-PRIORITY
10/17/2011-RECEIVED CHICAGO LOCKBOX
10/19/2011-NOA1-TEXT  AND EMAIL 10/19/2011-SENT TO CSC
10/20/2011- INITIAL REVIEW STATUS
10/24/2011- HARD COPY RECEIVED I-797C
AFTER 5 MONTH'S 29 DAYS AT CSC  NOA1  ********APPROVED********
04/16/2012- NOA2 (NO RFE's) VIA WEBSITE- NO TEXT RECEIVED
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06/03/2012- DS-3032- SENT TO NVC FROM HUSBANDS EMAIL ADDRESS.
06/12/2012- CHOICE OF AGENT RECEIVED TO MY PERSONAL EMAIL FROM NVC.
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12/19/2012- AOS PAID
06/20/2013- PAID IV BILL ONLINE.
06/21/2013-CALLED NVC THERE IS A GLITCH IN SYSTEM. SITE NOT SHOWING **PAID**.
06/25/2013- NVC FINALLY SHOWING PAID AND PROCESSED,TOOK 4 DAYS TO SHOW
06/25/2013- MAILED VIA EXPRESS MAIL MY DS-230
06/26/2013- DS 230 RECEIVED BY NVC.
07/09/2013- CALLED NVC AGENTS STATES MY DS230 IS NOT IN THE SYSTEM YET! :(. MIND YOU IT WAS DELIVERED ON 06/25/2013
07/19/2013- CHECKLIST.YIKES!!! WAITING ON HUBBY TO SIGN FORM AND SEND BACK TO ME.. WEPA!!! FEDEX
07/23/2013- RE SENT PAGE 1&2 OF DS 230.
07/24/2013- NVC RECEIVED CORRECTED DS-230.
07/25/2013- NVC RECEIVED ON THE 24TH
08/16/2013- CASE COMPLETE
08/27/2013- CITA 10/23/2013- 11 days after  11/2/13- WE'RE DONE HUBBY IN USA!!!!!!!!

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #20 on: July 30, 2013, 02:23:18 pm »

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #21 on: July 30, 2013, 02:24:56 pm »
Hey Q, no, I love women too much. I was thinking about just becoming an international playboy (though it'd be easier if I could use your picture).... and just travel and meet different women, but never commit again.

And catch every disese known to man (and maybe a few that are unknown).

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #22 on: July 31, 2013, 05:35:12 am »
This is my 4th time around... and as Tim says I also got divorced here in the states. I did all the paperwork myself. Then husband was in Canada>. Damn Nigerian Scammer...OOPS!!!  TMI!!!!!!

Four Times !!!! ? Boy I thought I had miles on me  :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #23 on: July 31, 2013, 06:50:00 am »
@marc No, I never completed the Visa process. I sent in the I130, but it's only about 3months in, so I guess I have to cancel that too.
@TWIN, I guess it's always been difficult to trust her. I saw her facebook account open once last year and read where she was talking and flirting with some guy and he was supposedly sending her money or something. Then there's just the sheer lack of appreciation for anything that I do, and I do everything. Never wants to go out really when I'm down there, but posts pictures on facebook of her partying and hanging out with friends. The last straw I guess was when I had a friend flirt with her on facebook and she gave him her number after the second conversation and invited him down to hang out with her and take her horseback riding etc. When asked about her husband, she said he doesn't live here and continued flirting and chatting with the guy until I mentioned it. Her only defense was "I knew he was your friend or related to you in someway." Then why not mention that to me that a friend of mine contacted you and asked you for your number etc. Just too many issues, but the main thing is just the sheer lack of appreciation, affection, or just emotion I get in general, especially when I'm down there. She claims to love me and all, but never does anything to show it. I feel lie I'm the one always reaching out and giving and accepting, but there's just nothing in return and she's no longer the girl I first met. Sorry to rant, but I just had to get it out.
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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #24 on: July 31, 2013, 07:30:41 am »
@marc No, I never completed the Visa process. I sent in the I130, but it's only about 3months in, so I guess I have to cancel that too.
@TWIN, I guess it's always been difficult to trust her. I saw her facebook account open once last year and read where she was talking and flirting with some guy and he was supposedly sending her money or something. Then there's just the sheer lack of appreciation for anything that I do, and I do everything. Never wants to go out really when I'm down there, but posts pictures on facebook of her partying and hanging out with friends. The last straw I guess was when I had a friend flirt with her on facebook and she gave him her number after the second conversation and invited him down to hang out with her and take her horseback riding etc. When asked about her husband, she said he doesn't live here and continued flirting and chatting with the guy until I mentioned it. Her only defense was "I knew he was your friend or related to you in someway." Then why not mention that to me that a friend of mine contacted you and asked you for your number etc. Just too many issues, but the main thing is just the sheer lack of appreciation, affection, or just emotion I get in general, especially when I'm down there. She claims to love me and all, but never does anything to show it. I feel lie I'm the one always reaching out and giving and accepting, but there's just nothing in return and she's no longer the girl I first met. Sorry to rant, but I just had to get it out.

Man listen I know exactly how you feel, somthing happen to me several years ago in DR is all posted here on this site, I made a unxepected visit and found my so callled girl friend seating on some old dude laps in front of her house, a frind of my drove me to her house and when we saw what she was doing he told lets leave and never called her again, but that was not my choice I got out of he car and made sure that I walked up to her if not she was going to denied the whole thing, I was going there for seven days so I drove to Boca Chica needless to say I was sad most mostly desapointed, that night I spend the night by myself just thinking, but the next day I knew I had to move on, so for the next six days I spend the night with the 2  most gorgeous woman Boca Chica had to offer.

Get divorce give yourself some time and move on you sound like a very educated man you can do it.

Make sure you send USCIS a letter canceling the petition and that you get something from them that it has being cancel.

If you ever do this  again you are going to need that document, I know.  Once again sorry my brother really sorry.

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #25 on: July 31, 2013, 09:15:11 am »
I know that you will not feel this way, but things could have been much much much worse. Be happy that you are not too far along in the process and that you didn't bring her here. Cut your losses and move on. This can happen with any relationship anywhere. At least you are man enough to say "No Mas".............

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #26 on: July 31, 2013, 09:35:49 am »
I guess my thing is, I've been supporting her for the past year. Apartment, electricity, internet, cable, everything. Should I just immediately stop supporting her? I remember one time I asked her why she felt she was entitled to everything (including new cell phone, laptop, etc)...she answered me because she's cute and because she's my wife...should've read more into that, but anyway, should I keep supporting her?

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #27 on: July 31, 2013, 10:23:24 am »
I guess my thing is, I've been supporting her for the past year. Apartment, electricity, internet, cable, everything. Should I just immediately stop supporting her? I remember one time I asked her why she felt she was entitled to everything (including new cell phone, laptop, etc)...she answered me because she's cute and because she's my wife...should've read more into that, but anyway, should I keep supporting her?

Why would you keep supporting her? When it's over, it's over! Drop her like a red hot rock! She obviously got along just fine before you came into the picture.

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #28 on: July 31, 2013, 10:23:37 am »
I guess my thing is, I've been supporting her for the past year. Apartment, electricity, internet, cable, everything. Should I just immediately stop supporting her? I remember one time I asked her why she felt she was entitled to everything (including new cell phone, laptop, etc)...she answered me because she's cute and because she's my wife...should've read more into that, but anyway, should I keep supporting her?

NO not another penny, let  her find  out on her own what life is all about.

Tirso 

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #29 on: July 31, 2013, 10:57:09 am »
I guess my thing is, I've been supporting her for the past year. Apartment, electricity, internet, cable, everything. Should I just immediately stop supporting her? I remember one time I asked her why she felt she was entitled to everything (including new cell phone, laptop, etc)...she answered me because she's cute and because she's my wife...should've read more into that, but anyway, should I keep supporting her?

That would be "No".....


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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #30 on: July 31, 2013, 10:58:40 am »
This is my 4th time around... and as Tim says I also got divorced here in the states. I did all the paperwork myself. Then husband was in Canada>. Damn Nigerian Scammer...OOPS!!!  TMI!!!!!!

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What you doing looking all cute?

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #31 on: July 31, 2013, 11:29:52 am »
This is my 4th time around... and as Tim says I also got divorced here in the states. I did all the paperwork myself. Then husband was in Canada>. Damn Nigerian Scammer...OOPS!!!  TMI!!!!!!

Nice photo Boo, wow!!! this  women on DTTUSA are looking better every day.

If I live in Florida how difficult is it to petition some one from the Bronx?

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #32 on: July 31, 2013, 12:39:40 pm »
@ Tirso @ 50 yrs young you have to do what you have to do. I got married very young. First time 15 yrs second time 9 almost 10. third time to a scammer... that lasted less then a year.. NO ES QUE TENGO EL MILLAJE BORRADOO...LOL.... This time around I have been married 2 yrs as of May 3rd. Y si  no funciona voy pa la 5to.. oh oh!! take no DUDU attitude at 50... cause I can.... WEPA!!!!

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06/03/2012- DS-3032- SENT TO NVC FROM HUSBANDS EMAIL ADDRESS.
06/12/2012- CHOICE OF AGENT RECEIVED TO MY PERSONAL EMAIL FROM NVC.
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06/20/2013- PAID IV BILL ONLINE.
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07/19/2013- CHECKLIST.YIKES!!! WAITING ON HUBBY TO SIGN FORM AND SEND BACK TO ME.. WEPA!!! FEDEX
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07/25/2013- NVC RECEIVED ON THE 24TH
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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #33 on: July 31, 2013, 03:16:20 pm »
Go for the gold woman, I feel the same way we fail when we stop trying.

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #34 on: July 31, 2013, 05:10:39 pm »
got to chime in.  Don't give her another cent. Don't take this wrong but I would bet this isn't her first or last time doing this.  Just a word of advice from an old guy lol

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #35 on: July 31, 2013, 08:52:35 pm »
Huff.. I know you realized she was up to no good in April.  Sorry it took 3 months, sounds like a drawn out goodbye.. :(  Hang in there!!

Stop immediately.. IMMEDIATELY..

She is a SANKY.. her job is to find people like YOU that will support her. 

Yes there are MANY women Sankies! Sorry that you found one.. BTDT
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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #36 on: August 16, 2013, 08:25:09 am »
So ma man did you or not, I guess she convince you not too, thats the power PZ.

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #37 on: November 22, 2013, 02:16:45 pm »
Tirso, you are so funny! You said a nice pair of knockers!! LMAO....  My advise do the paperwork yourself, in DR Lawyers see us coming and think we pick up money off the trees here. You sound like a very smart kind man, cut your losses and move on, a lot smarter and wiser.

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #38 on: November 22, 2013, 02:42:57 pm »
Tirso, you are so funny! You said a nice pair of knockers!! LMAO....  My advise do the paperwork yourself, in DR Lawyers see us coming and think we pick up money off the trees here. You sound like a very smart kind man, cut your losses and move on, a lot smarter and wiser.

Well you know something he is going to do the same thing again, Men WE are stupid, we brake up with a woman for what we think are the right reasons then what do we do, not go to church and look for a nice lady, OH NO WE GO TO A BAR PICK UP THE FIRST ONE WE SEE  AND BANG  mistake # 2 Thats what I call The Power of PZ , Thats why I keep my around good or bad I least I know her already, and to be perfectly honest in bed she beats me up so what the hell, what more colud I ask for, well maybe the Lotto 

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Re: HELP WITH A DIVORCE!!!
« Reply #39 on: March 03, 2014, 11:17:49 am »
Hello Twincactus - I had no idea that I can file for a divorce here in the United States.  I just finished reading this post.  My SO lives in the Dominican Republic.  He has never been to the United States.  A divorce is long over due, and I always thought that I would have to go back to the Dominican to get the divorce.  Especially since that is where I got married.  Can you please help me get started?  I live in Los Angeles County in California.
Thank you.
Blessednluvinit
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If anyone can recommend any good (trustworthy) divorce lawyers down in the DR particularly the Santiago area, but really anywhere in the DR, it would be greatly appreciated. I'd like to get this taken care of as quickly as possible.
Let me give you an option you may not have thought about. Get divorced here in the states. It can be done. I did it myself Pro se (representing myself). The biggest problem I had was serving her the papers. She agreed to sign a certificate of service so I sent it down to her UPS with a return envelope. Problem solved. The divorce was uncontested, so I got a default divorce but you could even go for a consent decree where she agrees to all your terms. It's easy to do your own divorce in most states. Some even have electronic forms you can use.

When I tried to get divorced in the DR, everyone wanted a fortune so I just did it myself here in the states. We are part of the Hague convention so the marriage and divorce is recognized in both countries. I have to say I am not a lawyer so you may want to look up your local laws in your state.

-Tim
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