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Offline Clarywaldo

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Venting Time!
« on: October 16, 2014, 07:33:29 am »
ok, so I need to vent! I got a call from a D.R number yesterday and I was away from my phone so I didn't answer. I then get a text message from the same number.  .. it's my step-daughters mother. We haven't talked to her in over 2 weeks. she wrote, "hola clari es nathaly como esta espero k bn, saludame las niñas, ah tambien quiero pedirte un favor k si tu puede me regale 50 peso de aya para yo comprar un medicamento k esta un poco carito nada cuidese mucho la km bye"  WHO tha fkkkkkk does this bissshhh think she iss?? asking ME for money  :rotfl: ! well I didn't respond and I not sure if im going to either! If anything shouldn't she be the one helping ME out with $$.. . .just thought I'd get ya'lls input in this... . The last time she spoke with the girls she asked them for money to buy a piece of cake because it was her bday, that was back in September! I got the phone and said, COMO TU LE VAS A PEDIR DINERO A LAS NINAS! A ELLAS NO SE LE DA DINERO PORKE LA COMIDA EN LA ESCUELA ES GRATIS!! does she think money grows on trees here?!?! I'm at my whits end with this woman!  :beathorse:
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1/3/2013- Got Married!!
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4/10/2013- Sent I-130/I-129 for SO & 2 step Daughters
4/15/2013- NOA1 text, email received
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11/25/2013-Sent AOS (I-864)Mailed Priority Mail
11/25/2013-DS-260 Online for Hubby
11/26/2013-Paid IV $230 for Step Daughters
11/28/2013-DS-260 Online for Step Daughters
12/02/2013-Sent DS-260 Supporting Documents Priority Mail
12/25/2013-Merry X-mas 2 me, NVC sent checklist
12/30/2013- NVC reviewed DS-260 Documents
1/08/2014- Sent NVC the CHECKLIST w/ missing documents
2/11/2014-NVC received all doc., waiting for Interview Date!!
2/28/2014- Got our CITA date 04/07/2014!!!!
3/17/2014- Hubby and 2 step-daughters went to medical.
4/02/2014- 4th trip
4/07/2014- ALL 3 APPROVED!
4/14/2014- Visas picked up at Domex in Santiago
4/17/2014- Port of Entry(Miami)
5/05/2014- Paid Green Card Fees $165
6/13/2014- Received hubby & Step-Daughters Green Cards.
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Venting Time!
« on: October 16, 2014, 07:33:29 am »

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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #1 on: October 16, 2014, 09:49:35 am »
Venting is good, but am going to tell you something and you probably don't want to hear it, her next move is going to be calling your husband, just for you to be on the look out. That's me one open book.

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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #2 on: October 16, 2014, 09:52:01 am »
Yes, she really does think money grows on trees here, most people like her do. She will do anything she can do to try and extort money from you and your husband. It makes NO difference WHERE her children are at (with you or her), she will even do as she has already done..... use her own kids to make them feel sorry for her poorness and beg you to send mommy money. This is NOT a good situation to be in.

I don't take calls from my ex! I won't ever either. My wife on the other hand..... it took her about a good 3-4 years to actually learn her lesson with my ex. Now, finally, she won't take her calls either unless she is just itching to  :bitch: my ex about something.


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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #3 on: October 16, 2014, 09:55:31 am »
Get use to it. Tell her that you had to get rid of your phone because you couldn't afford it. Tell her if she needs to get in touch to call Waldo's number. Tell her that you kept Waldo's phone because he is the "man of the house" and he needs it for work and stuff. Then block her number from your phone or just don't answer her calls or texts.

Remember one thing. She will ALWAYS be the girls mother. Don't say bad things about her in front of them. Don't stop them from talking to her. It's only natural for them to love her. Let them figure things out on their own when they are older. If you try and tell the girls the "truth", they will only get hurt. Time will tell the truth.

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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #4 on: October 16, 2014, 09:58:04 am »
well, she doesn't know my husband has a cell phone and he has her blocked on facebook. we only use mine when we call to the D.R cuz I have AT&T (1 cent a minute) and he has Verizon. I just talked to him and he says, pero ella tiene que estar loca. he says to tell her que se mira mal preguntandome por dinero, but I'm just going to pretend I never got the message. he says that she must be under the impression that we are really good friends. The only reason I communicate with her is to let her know how good the girls r doing here. .I actually have to force the girls to talk to her because they never want to. The youngest one always runs in the bathroom when we do call her.. . When we celebrated my youngest bday in the Campo in the D.R we invited her to go have dinner with us and she didn't show up. she said she was going to buy her a cake but spent the money on a lotion instead. . who in the world does that!!! I guess it makes no difference to her because she's never been a part of their life. . .
09/5/2011- Met Waldo
12/12/2011- Started Dating
07/2/2012- 1st Trip
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12/30/2013- NVC reviewed DS-260 Documents
1/08/2014- Sent NVC the CHECKLIST w/ missing documents
2/11/2014-NVC received all doc., waiting for Interview Date!!
2/28/2014- Got our CITA date 04/07/2014!!!!
3/17/2014- Hubby and 2 step-daughters went to medical.
4/02/2014- 4th trip
4/07/2014- ALL 3 APPROVED!
4/14/2014- Visas picked up at Domex in Santiago
4/17/2014- Port of Entry(Miami)
5/05/2014- Paid Green Card Fees $165
6/13/2014- Received hubby & Step-Daughters Green Cards.
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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #5 on: October 16, 2014, 10:00:04 am »
well, she doesn't know my husband has a cell phone and he has her blocked on facebook. we only use mine when we call to the D.R cuz I have AT&T (1 cent a minute) and he has Verizon. I just talked to him and he says, pero ella tiene que estar loca. he says to tell her que se mira mal preguntandome por dinero, but I'm just going to pretend I never got the message. he says that she must be under the impression that we are really good friends. The only reason I communicate with her is to let her know how good the girls r doing here. .I actually have to force the girls to talk to her because they never want to. The youngest one always runs in the bathroom when we do call her.. . When we celebrated my youngest bday in the Campo in the D.R we invited her to go have dinner with us and she didn't show up. she said she was going to buy her a cake but spent the money on a lotion instead. . who in the world does that!!! I guess it makes no difference to her because she's never been a part of their life. . .

Then just keep ignoring her......


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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #6 on: October 16, 2014, 10:39:40 am »
well, she doesn't know my husband has a cell phone and he has her blocked on facebook. we only use mine when we call to the D.R cuz I have AT&T (1 cent a minute) and he has Verizon. I just talked to him and he says, pero ella tiene que estar loca. he says to tell her que se mira mal preguntandome por dinero, but I'm just going to pretend I never got the message. he says that she must be under the impression that we are really good friends. The only reason I communicate with her is to let her know how good the girls r doing here. .I actually have to force the girls to talk to her because they never want to. The youngest one always runs in the bathroom when we do call her.. . When we celebrated my youngest bday in the Campo in the D.R we invited her to go have dinner with us and she didn't show up. she said she was going to buy her a cake but spent the money on a lotion instead. . who in the world does that!!! I guess it makes no difference to her because she's never been a part of their life. . .

Then just keep ignoring her......

sounds like a plan!  :champagne:
09/5/2011- Met Waldo
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10/15/2013-Contacted State Representative to get Professional Inquiry
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11/15/2013-NVC Received Case
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11/19/2013-E-mail Choice of Agent(DS-261)
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11/26/2013-Paid IV $230 for Step Daughters
11/28/2013-DS-260 Online for Step Daughters
12/02/2013-Sent DS-260 Supporting Documents Priority Mail
12/25/2013-Merry X-mas 2 me, NVC sent checklist
12/30/2013- NVC reviewed DS-260 Documents
1/08/2014- Sent NVC the CHECKLIST w/ missing documents
2/11/2014-NVC received all doc., waiting for Interview Date!!
2/28/2014- Got our CITA date 04/07/2014!!!!
3/17/2014- Hubby and 2 step-daughters went to medical.
4/02/2014- 4th trip
4/07/2014- ALL 3 APPROVED!
4/14/2014- Visas picked up at Domex in Santiago
4/17/2014- Port of Entry(Miami)
5/05/2014- Paid Green Card Fees $165
6/13/2014- Received hubby & Step-Daughters Green Cards.
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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #7 on: October 17, 2014, 04:42:44 am »
Clary, I had to give my input on this one. I would never give her your husbands phone number as she will then be calling him all the time, He won't tell you about the calls either as he will know that you will get upset. You can mark *67 when you call her with the girls so she don't have your number. Tell her you changed your phone  number and are using a friends phone.

I agree, that she is the girls mother so don't ever talk bad about her in front of them. Let them learn who/what she is. When they get older they will appreciate you not her. It's who raises them andis there for them, not who gives birth to them.
I know it's hard but don't call her or take her calls anymore. Change your voicemail to just say your phone number instead of your voice. Let her keep spending money on calling cards to call you.Just don't answer.

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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #8 on: October 17, 2014, 06:53:44 am »
Clary, I had to give my input on this one. I would never give her your husbands phone number as she will then be calling him all the time, He won't tell you about the calls either as he will know that you will get upset. You can mark *67 when you call her with the girls so she don't have your number. Tell her you changed your phone  number and are using a friends phone.

I agree, that she is the girls mother so don't ever talk bad about her in front of them. Let them learn who/what she is. When they get older they will appreciate you not her. It's who raises them andis there for them, not who gives birth to them.
I know it's hard but don't call her or take her calls anymore. Change your voicemail to just say your phone number instead of your voice. Let her keep spending money on calling cards to call you.Just don't answer.

Thanks all for the input... I never talk bad about anyone because sooner or later their true colors come out. My oldest says the only memory she has of her mom is her hitting her when she was younger because of things she would do wrong and I just try to encourage her that she didn't mean bad by it. It wont be hard not taking her calls, I'm just hoping she doesn't cause drama because we wont be calling her as often.
09/5/2011- Met Waldo
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10/15/2013-Contacted State Representative to get Professional Inquiry
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11/25/2013-Sent AOS (I-864)Mailed Priority Mail
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11/26/2013-Paid IV $230 for Step Daughters
11/28/2013-DS-260 Online for Step Daughters
12/02/2013-Sent DS-260 Supporting Documents Priority Mail
12/25/2013-Merry X-mas 2 me, NVC sent checklist
12/30/2013- NVC reviewed DS-260 Documents
1/08/2014- Sent NVC the CHECKLIST w/ missing documents
2/11/2014-NVC received all doc., waiting for Interview Date!!
2/28/2014- Got our CITA date 04/07/2014!!!!
3/17/2014- Hubby and 2 step-daughters went to medical.
4/02/2014- 4th trip
4/07/2014- ALL 3 APPROVED!
4/14/2014- Visas picked up at Domex in Santiago
4/17/2014- Port of Entry(Miami)
5/05/2014- Paid Green Card Fees $165
6/13/2014- Received hubby & Step-Daughters Green Cards.
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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #9 on: October 17, 2014, 11:26:56 am »
Sorry to hear that you are going through this Clary. I really do feel like Dominicans feel like we are made of money. Anytime that Jr's family knows that I am coming they start reaching out on facebook and asking me for clothes, shoes , etc. They start telling me not to tell anyone because other people will make fun of them for not having many clothes. Junior tells me to tell them k vayan al mierda. :nono:

I don't like that. Let me offer to help don't expect it of me. I could rant and rave about this all day!!! BLOCK HER GIRL!!!!


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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #10 on: October 17, 2014, 11:45:35 am »
Sorry to hear that you are going through this Clary. I really do feel like Dominicans feel like we are made of money. Anytime that Jr's family knows that I am coming they start reaching out on facebook and asking me for clothes, shoes , etc. They start telling me not to tell anyone because other people will make fun of them for not having many clothes. Junior tells me to tell them k vayan al mierda. :nono:

I don't like that. Let me offer to help don't expect it of me. I could rant and rave about this all day!!! BLOCK HER GIRL!!!!


she just called again, it rang twice then hung up. She knows I'm working at this time so she's just calling para joderme! ugh. . Waldo's family has never asked me for anything at all that is why I take them stuff when I can. Clothes here is super cheap when it goes on sale so we plan to take a suit case when we go (god willing) in April. we sent his cousin and nephew some shoes from Wal-Mart because they were $3! lol can't beat the price!
09/5/2011- Met Waldo
12/12/2011- Started Dating
07/2/2012- 1st Trip
11/27/2012- 2nd Trip
1/3/2013- Got Married!!
3/20/2013- Came back to the USA after 4 mnths
4/10/2013- Sent I-130/I-129 for SO & 2 step Daughters
4/15/2013- NOA1 text, email received
10/15/2013-Contacted State Representative to get Professional Inquiry
10/21/2013-NOA 2 Email/Text(Gracias a Dios!)
10/25/2013-11/03/2013-3rd Trip
11/15/2013-NVC Received Case
11/19/2013-Received Case #'s [[NVC]]
11/19/2013-E-mail Choice of Agent(DS-261)
11/20/2013-Paid AOS $88
11/21/2013-Paid IV $230 for Hubby
11/25/2013-Sent AOS (I-864)Mailed Priority Mail
11/25/2013-DS-260 Online for Hubby
11/26/2013-Paid IV $230 for Step Daughters
11/28/2013-DS-260 Online for Step Daughters
12/02/2013-Sent DS-260 Supporting Documents Priority Mail
12/25/2013-Merry X-mas 2 me, NVC sent checklist
12/30/2013- NVC reviewed DS-260 Documents
1/08/2014- Sent NVC the CHECKLIST w/ missing documents
2/11/2014-NVC received all doc., waiting for Interview Date!!
2/28/2014- Got our CITA date 04/07/2014!!!!
3/17/2014- Hubby and 2 step-daughters went to medical.
4/02/2014- 4th trip
4/07/2014- ALL 3 APPROVED!
4/14/2014- Visas picked up at Domex in Santiago
4/17/2014- Port of Entry(Miami)
5/05/2014- Paid Green Card Fees $165
6/13/2014- Received hubby & Step-Daughters Green Cards.
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01/11/16--I-751 Lifting Conditions $505+$85+$85+$85
08/01/16-Request for Evidence,sent info 08/10
08/29/16- Received Hubby & Step Daughters 10 yr Green Card :)

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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #11 on: October 17, 2014, 12:19:29 pm »
She is not going to stop it rang twice and she hung up because she doesn't have enough minutes on her phone for the phone call, that's what they call in DR ' Am going to beep you" boy am such a native.

One advise have your husband talk to her and tell her no sorry no money honey.
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Send AOS July 11th. 2013
Paid IV $230.00 July 23rd. 201
Trip #13 August 18th.
DS-260 file on Line Sept. 9th. 2013
Other Documents by mail Sept.9th.2013
Case Complete NVC October 11, 2013
Trip # 14 October 19th. 2013
Rec.email Cita letter Oct. 23rd. 2013
Case in transit to Consulate Nov. 19
Cita December 24th. 11 days after case complete
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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #12 on: October 17, 2014, 12:55:33 pm »
She is not going to stop it rang twice and she hung up because she doesn't have enough minutes on her phone for the phone call, that's what they call in DR ' Am going to beep you" boy am such a native.

One advise have your husband talk to her and tell her no sorry no money honey.

My hubby HATES talking to her. He says the only good that came from their relationship were the girls. She can beep me all she wants, It's the weekend and I'm leaving my phone at HOME! we got things to do and places to go! CA$$INOO TIME!! hahah Happy Friday Ya'll!  :luv:
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11/26/2013-Paid IV $230 for Step Daughters
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12/02/2013-Sent DS-260 Supporting Documents Priority Mail
12/25/2013-Merry X-mas 2 me, NVC sent checklist
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4/14/2014- Visas picked up at Domex in Santiago
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6/13/2014- Received hubby & Step-Daughters Green Cards.
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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #13 on: October 17, 2014, 04:45:39 pm »
Oh yeah Jr calls me like that. I get excited to see his number pop up. And then when I answer it it hangs up. I hate that. But yeah I would stick the hubby on the phone to set her straight and then ignore her calls from that point on. I like Koukela's idea about calling her private and maybe changing the number.

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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #14 on: October 18, 2014, 09:23:49 am »
Clary.from my own experiences.I will said.yours husband need to end this by talking to her is him and her..he like or not .if thegirs are going back to dr before they are18..years.the mother.legally .has the right.on less she loss he mother right by law.........if    she get a lawyer.and go to court.......they Will said to you....you don't have matter in this business .that is in dominicanrepublic.........all that she cares is money....f she make her number 200$dollar a month for keeping the girls.believe me she will keep the girls......you can send any unknown number to   block and  her number too'...believe you will have a peaceful live...god bless you keep doing you job of love as a stepmother...I'm not a mother but stepmother too..xoxo
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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #15 on: October 19, 2014, 09:21:28 pm »
I don't have any idea what siemprefresca just said LOL but here is my 2 cents.

I don't agree with the "She's always going to be their mother" thing. Yes she gave birth to them but that's it. I cut off all communication with my first ex after she pulled a few real nice things on me, and I never looked back. Clary, you have NO obligations to this woman for anything. None. You don't have to answer her calls and you certainly don't want to send her any money. She doesn't care any about the kids, the ONLY reason she still has contact is because she thinks she can somehow get money from you or your husband. Trust me, when she figures out she ain't gettin' any, she'll stop calling. Don't get yourself all in a dither about this, just don't answer her period. She has no other way to contact you so she'll stop.

I have taken the "no money" approach a long time ago with all Dominicans. If I WANT to bring them something I will and I do, but if they ask for it, I especially don't bring it because I think they are rude to expect me to just bring them whatever they want. Thankfully, my current in-laws do not ask for things and so I bring them what I know they need - my wife tells me because she knows, and I only bring things if I can afford it.

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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #16 on: October 20, 2014, 08:04:18 am »
Siemprefresca, I'm not too worried about her "thinking" she can keep the girls there. I'm ready to take her to court and fight at any moment she wants to. At this moment she even agreed herself that the girls r way better off with us. We plan to go to the D.R some time in April and I thought about taking her a shirt or something, but Tim ur right, I have no obligation with this woman. . . .
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07/2/2012- 1st Trip
11/27/2012- 2nd Trip
1/3/2013- Got Married!!
3/20/2013- Came back to the USA after 4 mnths
4/10/2013- Sent I-130/I-129 for SO & 2 step Daughters
4/15/2013- NOA1 text, email received
10/15/2013-Contacted State Representative to get Professional Inquiry
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11/19/2013-E-mail Choice of Agent(DS-261)
11/20/2013-Paid AOS $88
11/21/2013-Paid IV $230 for Hubby
11/25/2013-Sent AOS (I-864)Mailed Priority Mail
11/25/2013-DS-260 Online for Hubby
11/26/2013-Paid IV $230 for Step Daughters
11/28/2013-DS-260 Online for Step Daughters
12/02/2013-Sent DS-260 Supporting Documents Priority Mail
12/25/2013-Merry X-mas 2 me, NVC sent checklist
12/30/2013- NVC reviewed DS-260 Documents
1/08/2014- Sent NVC the CHECKLIST w/ missing documents
2/11/2014-NVC received all doc., waiting for Interview Date!!
2/28/2014- Got our CITA date 04/07/2014!!!!
3/17/2014- Hubby and 2 step-daughters went to medical.
4/02/2014- 4th trip
4/07/2014- ALL 3 APPROVED!
4/14/2014- Visas picked up at Domex in Santiago
4/17/2014- Port of Entry(Miami)
5/05/2014- Paid Green Card Fees $165
6/13/2014- Received hubby & Step-Daughters Green Cards.
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01/11/16--I-751 Lifting Conditions $505+$85+$85+$85
08/01/16-Request for Evidence,sent info 08/10
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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #17 on: October 20, 2014, 08:53:54 am »
Hey.this point of a mother's you won't understand.becuase you are a men.......but for better of for bad..she is theone who carried them for 9month's..she could abort them but thanks god she decide to give birth.......... clary.god be with you al thru this .remember.what I said.your husband and her.  Are the  only. By law.anless she give up her rights as a mother...
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RFE,12.2013
SEND RFE.01.2013
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HOLD PAPER,ISSUE IN MARRIED CERTIFICATED
JULY 2013.PAY,AOS, VISA FEE
AGUST 2013 SEND DOCUMENTS
SEPT 15 2013, GOT E MAIL CASE COMPLETE WAING FOR CITA.......oct,5,e mail letter of imterwiew,nov 6  visa aprroved,,,10 13 ,13,they called visa ready,10,14,13 visa pick up at  domex office sdq,,,arrived at usa 01,28,2014,,,,,,,socialsecurity.10 days after,,,,,,,green card ,50 days te arrived...

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Re: Venting Time!
« Reply #18 on: October 20, 2014, 10:00:55 am »
ok, so I need to vent! I got a call from a D.R number yesterday and I was away from my phone so I didn't answer. I then get a text message from the same number.  .. it's my step-daughters mother. We haven't talked to her in over 2 weeks. she wrote, "hola clari es nathaly como esta espero k bn, saludame las niñas, ah tambien quiero pedirte un favor k si tu puede me regale 50 peso de aya para yo comprar un medicamento k esta un poco carito nada cuidese mucho la km bye"  WHO tha fkkkkkk does this bissshhh think she iss?? asking ME for money  :rotfl:

I am  :rotfl: in shock and disbelief!! I would block her begging ass too!!  You are feeding, clothing, nursing - RAISING her kids and she asked you WHAT?!! Sorry but if she hasn't been in her kids lives consistently, I could care less if she knew how her kids were doing! You are a good person.  Me - I'm working on it.  If my stepsons mom EVER tried to reach out and ask me for SHIT, I would run to my close spanish speaking friend's house and put her on the phone to translate everything I said, just to make sure she was clear on how I felt about her and her asking for anything!  3 kids, has rarely lived with any of them and when my step went home this summer for a month, she was with him a few days the first week and a few days the last week, JUST to make sure she left an imprint... let me stop I could keep going on and on but anyway like I said you definitely are a good person Clary!! lol
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« Reply #19 on: October 20, 2014, 11:29:31 am »
Hey Tim. Yeah I feel like some people are messing it up for others.  Its mostly the females in his family ask me for material things. I don't mind doing things for them. But I just hate when people expect things from me. Like his Aunt one time asked me for the shirt on my back!!!!  :nono:  She messed it up for everyone. I used to bring toys and flip flops from old navy for the kids. Just a few things in my budget. Next time I go I am not going to bring anything for anyone. Just one suitcase for myself.

Clary I am still in disbelief that she asked you for money. Ella no tiene verguenza eh?

 

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