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In A Relationship with a Stranger
« on: November 07, 2017, 06:42:39 pm »
The title said it all, I am in love with a stranger and hey we haven't met in person but he is planning to pay me a visit on December 28 and celebrate our anniversary together. He has lied to me multiple time, first, he pretended to be somebody else and second, he didn't come on my birthday. Am I crazy for falling in love with a stranger? I don't know what will happen the day we finally met. He is a career-oriented man. My stalking skills made me know him more. Wait a minute am I on the right thread to post this sh*t about my life? I think I am crazy.
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In A Relationship with a Stranger
« on: November 07, 2017, 06:42:39 pm »

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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #1 on: November 08, 2017, 07:09:11 am »
The title said it all, I am in love with a stranger and hey we haven't met in person but he is planning to pay me a visit on December 28 and celebrate our anniversary together. He has lied to me multiple time, first, he pretended to be somebody else and second, he didn't come on my birthday. Am I crazy for falling in love with a stranger? I don't know what will happen the day we finally met. He is a career-oriented man. My stalking skills made me know him more. Wait a minute am I on the right thread to post this sh*t about my life? I think I am crazy.

Never mind that you haven't met in person yet. You have stated that this person that you say you are in love with is a "stranger", he has lied to you multiple times, has pretended to be someone else, stood you up on your birthday, and that you had to "stalk" him in order to get to know him better.

How does this sound to you?


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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #2 on: November 08, 2017, 06:06:30 pm »
Wow!


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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #3 on: November 09, 2017, 09:39:24 am »
 :mur: WOw! what did he lie about? something is totally off here lol. . . are u from the DR? or from where? where did you meet him? and can I ask, how old r u? lol sorry for all the questions. .
09/5/2011- Met Waldo
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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #4 on: November 09, 2017, 07:36:18 pm »
Am I crazy for sticking into this type of relationship?
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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #5 on: November 10, 2017, 07:19:40 am »
 :yawn: no
09/5/2011- Met Waldo
12/12/2011- Started Dating
07/2/2012- 1st Trip
11/27/2012- 2nd Trip
1/3/2013- Got Married!!
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4/10/2013- Sent I-130/I-129 for SO & 2 step Daughters
4/15/2013- NOA1 text, email received
10/15/2013-Contacted State Representative to get Professional Inquiry
10/21/2013-NOA 2 Email/Text(Gracias a Dios!)
10/25/2013-11/03/2013-3rd Trip
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4/14/2014- Visas picked up at Domex in Santiago
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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #6 on: November 10, 2017, 07:30:40 am »
Am I crazy for sticking into this type of relationship?

Under the conditions that you describe, I think you can do much better. Then, I only know what you have said. It's hard to say without knowing more details.

Anyway, I wish you all the best!!!


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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #7 on: November 10, 2017, 06:05:36 pm »
I'm taking it that you are not in the U.S. and he IS in the U.S.? If this is the case, there is no valid excuse for lies. Him pretending to be someone else may have been a feeble attempt to see if you would bite on someone else.

Crazy? No, you're not crazy! But understand, not everyone in the U.S. is exactly a model person. Then again, many in the D.R. aren't either! I'd suggest taking things one step at a time and stay slow. Having never met him in person, you have no clue who he truly is.....proceed with caution.

If your avatar picture is actually you.......be very cautious! You are a very pretty young lady and obviously smart, just keep your head on strait and watch for signs.

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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #8 on: November 11, 2017, 10:07:35 am »
Could this person have been hurt in the past before by a Dominican woman?  There are sick people out there that will make you pay the crime the other person did..

Wonder what he's hiding..

I would move on and find someone better, lots of great people in the USA and anywhere else.. you just have to look good.
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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #9 on: November 15, 2017, 07:18:24 pm »
I will keep all your pointers in mind. Thank you guys.
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Re: In A Relationship with a Stranger
« Reply #10 on: November 16, 2017, 07:07:14 am »
I will keep all your pointers in mind. Thank you guys.

No problem!!! Wishing you all the best!!!

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