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My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« on: February 27, 2009, 11:49:33 am »
We grew up in the same (barrio). I was his  (older )sister best friend. We were like sister. Same school, clothes, friends. Anyway, I never paid much attention to her little (3 years younger ) brother, in fact I remember always sending him away to play with his friends.


1983 – USA – Adjusting, making friends, learning the language.

1994 – First Trip to DR- Wow everybody grew. My friends look different. Had a get together with friends and who is this tall guy that I see. I don't remember him from back in the day. Yeah..is him alright My best friend little brother. Jajaja. Not so little anymore.
Talked and dance all night till 7am. I don't remember much about those 10 Days (drink and dance) but all I remember is that he was there every single day.

1995 – In Miami having fun and with my on and off again Boyfriend. But always wanting to go back to DR to see Him. The person that I can't stop thinking of. Talk to my  boyfriend and convince him that I wanted to Travel to DR alone. He agreed but wanted for me to meet his parents since he wanted our relationship to get more serious. (Agreed)

1995 – DR – went to see my b/f parents spend the day with them, out to dinner, Very lovely people. Went back to the City. Saw him. I felt so guilty b/c I didn't have the heart to tell him about my b/f. We just hugged and kissed. (is bad I know). That night I told him that I needed to talk to him. I told him about my b/f and he told me that he can't be with me any longer. That is either him or b/f.  Told him that I would decide once I'm back in Miami.

1995 – Miami – 6 months after my trip to Dr. Got engaged. I loved him but felt that I was too young to be in a LDR. This guy loves me and I know him for a long time and figure it was better for me.

1995 – DR – Went to DR in December to Start planning my wedding since my b/f parents can't flight we decided to marry in DR. Went to la capital to tell my family about my wedding and to tell him that I was sorry.  That morning I went to the cemetery to bring flowers to my Grandmother. While I was there guess who showed up. Him!!! I just stood there. Didn't know what to say but I knew by looking at him that he found out about my wedding. The only thing he said was “Es verdad que te casa” I said Si. He got closer to me and said “solo quiero jurarte en frente  de la tumba de tu abuela que te voy a querer toda mi vida” turn around and left.

1996 – DR – Wedding. It was suppose to be the happiest day of my life. I was not happy. I was just there. The wedding was done at his parents hometown. His mother did everything. I was just there!!!. I knew that I just lost the love of my life. Found out that he was drinking all day and night playing the song of Fernandito Villalona “ Si Dios me quita la vida”

1996 – 2004 – My son was born in 1997 (best day of my life) but the rest was a night mare. I married the most selfish, jealous, tormented man. Never went back to DR but always asked about Him. He also got married and had a daughter same year my son was born.

2005 -2008 (No longer with husband) – Move on with my life, lots of changes. My ex made my life miserable. Going back and forth to court. (restraining orders).  Finally was able to live my life with my son in peace. Got my own place, new job. From time to time will call DR and always asked how he was doing. But never wanted to talk to him. I was embarrassed with everything that happened in my life. Wanted to heal before anything else. But did find out that he was divorce since 2003.

2009 (Jan) – DR – First trip since my wedding. Took my sister with me. Didn't want to go alone after so many years. Arrived Thursday night. Saw family and went to bed late.
Next morning went to do my hair and guess who did my hair…HIS sister. First thing she asked me “ya hablaste con mi hermano” le conteste “no” and then I saw her using her cell phone…next thing I knew I was saying hello to someone. Oh God!! When I heard his voice, I was shaking. I didn't know what to say. The only thing that I said was “espero verte pronto” y “Cuidate”. Night came and I was en la galeria (porch) seating with my families and all I heard was “Hay llego el Hombre” oh boy!!! My heart was beating fast, I was shaking, I felt that my face was red. He looked at me and said “Muchacha como as cambiado” yo le dije “tu tambien y mucho” my sister of course couldn’t stay quiet and said “esos corazones deven de estar saliendose” we just smiled.

He seat next to me and that was around 10pm. At 7am we were still seating in the same spot talking, wanting to know what really happened and why. Next day I was running errands we spoke on the phone and at night he went to see me again. This time we hugged and kissed and been talking ever since. Going back in 2 weeks to see him. Since I came back, we talked every single day at least 10 times and text around 50 times. Chat 4 times per week when his off from work.

***I'm not letting him go this time…Te amare por siempre amor!!

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My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« on: February 27, 2009, 11:49:33 am »

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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #1 on: February 27, 2009, 12:26:13 pm »
Wow what a story ur love was meet 2 be dont let him go this time.

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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #2 on: February 27, 2009, 12:38:57 pm »
no lo dejes ir
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #3 on: February 27, 2009, 12:41:55 pm »
wow wow y requete wow...
Esta historia si me gusta... Es como una novela!
Cojelo con 'take it ez' ahora!  And please by all means don't start the paperwork anytime soon! Get to know the man...

Good Luck  ;)
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #4 on: February 27, 2009, 12:47:15 pm »
wow wow y requete wow...
Esta historia si me gusta... Es como una novela!
Cojelo con 'take it ez' ahora!  And please by all means don't start the paperwork anytime soon! Get to know the man...

Good Luck  ;)

Yes take your time b/c man can be very spiteful sometimes..... you never know.
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #5 on: February 27, 2009, 12:48:28 pm »
wow wow y requete wow...
Esta historia si me gusta... Es como una novela!
Cojelo con 'take it ez' ahora!  And please by all means don't start the paperwork anytime soon! Get to know the man...

Good Luck  ;)

Yes take your time b/c man can be very spiteful sometimes..... you never know.
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #6 on: February 27, 2009, 12:49:55 pm »
Wow...don't let him go this time...Like my husband always says..."Lo que esta para uno nadie se lo quita". I definetely agree with the rest that this story was like a novela....Good Luck!!
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #7 on: February 27, 2009, 01:24:17 pm »
Thank you all for the best wishes. Actually we are not even talking about getting married.  Just getting to know each other again. Is been 13 years... If everything works out which I'm sure it will then by end of this year beginning of next year I'll be asking you guys for advice on the  :rtfm:

Thanks Again!!!
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #8 on: February 27, 2009, 01:28:10 pm »
wow, que novela
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #9 on: February 27, 2009, 02:19:56 pm »
Awwww nice story. It sounds like it's meant to be. Agarra ese hombre y aprieta aprieta aprieta  :banana:
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #10 on: February 27, 2009, 02:22:14 pm »
Nice story and  :welcome:
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #11 on: February 27, 2009, 03:23:39 pm »
WOW! What a love story!

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Good luck with everything. I wish you the best.

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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #12 on: February 27, 2009, 03:35:09 pm »
 :welcome:

Such a cute story...  Definitely keep us updated..
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #13 on: February 27, 2009, 06:38:44 pm »
Thanks for sharing. I agree with others take your time.
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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #14 on: February 27, 2009, 07:44:07 pm »
Wow i can only imagine how the emotions where flying at that moment.  Hey everythin happens for a reason.  If it is meant to be, it will be.  Remember before you arrived in Dr last january he had a life, now take your time to confirm that everything that might have been going on at that moment is now gone! So now it is only you and him, no one else.


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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #15 on: March 02, 2009, 11:34:36 pm »
wow wow y requete wow...
Esta historia si me gusta... Es como una novela!
Cojelo con 'take it ez' ahora!  And please by all means don't start the paperwork anytime soon! Get to know the man...

Good Luck  ;)

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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #16 on: December 04, 2011, 05:23:32 pm »
I love this story!!! It made me cry congrats to both !!!

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Re: My Story...after 13 years!!! Long Story....
« Reply #19 on: December 05, 2011, 10:45:47 am »
Are you saying a leopard never changes its spot? :rotfl:
Great question! Sonny, this gentleman has always believed that a leopard cannot change its spot, however, a person can certainly change their attitude depending on the circumstances, or their plight.

Many think that they are untouchable and are better than anyone, and it takes a vicious turning point in their life to make them think differently. 


 

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