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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
« Reply #40 on: March 08, 2010, 01:16:55 pm »
DTTUSA should consider doing more for Diego. Maybe a booklet or something like that
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« Reply #41 on: March 08, 2010, 06:48:20 pm »
I agree!
Only I don't think the booklet will do much good.
Instead, I would like to see more of the success stories posted
on our site. That stories does not make much of sensation and ratings, but they do help
people to form the balanced, unbiased opinion of Dominican life and Dominican people.
Let's hear more from Caro and Ramon, Yessi and Eri, Scott and Marla and many many more.
And us too, Erenia and Miguelito.
Our live together is nothing, like a bowl full of cherries. We both work hard, trying to make an ends meet. Barely have a time for each other (we both are not a spring chiken anymore). But there is something in our relationships, that makes it work. Besides the love, there is a deep, profound trust to each other (even though, she is jealous like a wild cat!!!!! :pissed:)
Nothing in the world will make us betray that trust...

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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
« Reply #42 on: March 23, 2010, 04:37:23 pm »
I wonder, how many of us know, what our SO's are going true.
It is so easy to say:
Learn English! Go to school! Get a job! Start from the bottom!
But imagine for a moment, if the shoe was on another foot.
What if it was you, that has to come to work not in to the cozy office and chat with the friends on your computer? But work your asses off in the sweat shop.
Minimum wage, horrible conditions, kissing your supervisors ass, being ridiculed and put down by some assholes coworkers?
Not easy to do! I know, I've been there. (Plus 6 years at DTTUSA)
It's hard, not everybody can take it.
And every time your SO refuse to do it, you are taking it as a personal insult.
Of course, you "sacrificed so much", you spend so much money to get that exotic poppy and he/she refused to act happy and play catch with you.

I wonder, how many of you even know, what I am talking about...
i do it is not easy for them to try a new culture and now it is not for everybody
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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
« Reply #43 on: March 24, 2010, 11:57:44 pm »
I wonder, how many of us know, what our SO's are going true.
It is so easy to say:
Learn English! Go to school! Get a job! Start from the bottom!
But imagine for a moment, if the shoe was on another foot.
What if it was you, that has to come to work not in to the cozy office and chat with the friends on your computer? But work your asses off in the sweat shop.
Minimum wage, horrible conditions, kissing your supervisors ass, being ridiculed and put down by some assholes coworkers?
Not easy to do! I know, I've been there. (Plus 6 years at DTTUSA)
It's hard, not everybody can take it.
And every time your SO refuse to do it, you are taking it as a personal insult.
Of course, you "sacrificed so much", you spend so much money to get that exotic poppy and he/she refused to act happy and play catch with you.

I wonder, how many of you even know, what I am talking about...

Well, Dominicans don't have to worry about any of that, because most are convinced the streets here are paved with gold.

Try telling anyone on the island how difficult it is here, and they dismissively turn their heads and let you talk until you're done, not wanting to hear a word of it.

A sweatshop is the unfortunate starting point for many newly-arrived immigrants with no skills, no contacts and no english. You act as if the workplace conditions in the DR are Shangri-La in comparison. This type of job is what you call a stepping-stone. If they hate it so much, they won't be there long and will do what they can do improve their work situation, just like any other American.

So if having one's Dominican spouse learn English seems too difficult, send them to school to pick up the kids or have them sit in on parent-teacher night oblivious to what is being said, just sitting there nodding their head in agreement. Or better yet send them to the doctor by themselves. That ones' always good for a laugh.

Your spouse should be your partner in life, not just an illiterate co-dependent who can't navigate the world unless it's in Spanish. If case you haven't noticed, the world is changing. Two incomes are necessary unless you're doing incredibly well in life.

If you want a co-dependent, sexually compliant toy to play with who will always keep the house clean and never says NO, then keep them in the DR. Once here they'll realize soon enough that they have options at their disposal to quickly outgrow their childish dependence on their American spouse.

Sorry to sound like a downer, but I think that some of the prevailing wisdom is exactly what makes some people an easy mark to get taken advantage of. It is not only the red flags on the Dominican's part, it is the red flags on the American's part that need to be aired.
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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
« Reply #44 on: March 25, 2010, 03:55:59 pm »
I am not gonna start yet another post about how good or evil  the Dominicans are. I never considered myself an expert on the things Dominican. The point a was making (which you totally missed) is simple:
There is nothing unique in the way Dominicans are trying to hook the stupid gringo. People are doing it all over the world, I know! However, most of the horror stories here, with the very few exceptions simply prove my point: (And we didn't even hear the other site yet)
The relationships were started by both sites being sincere and honest.
Problems started later, when the honeymoon is over and you must face the reality. Some people can do it, some can't. It has nothing to do with being Dominican, being married or being sankie. I don't think you have any idea (if I'm wrong, I apologize), how hard is it. You simply wouldn't be so cavalier about it.
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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
« Reply #45 on: March 25, 2010, 04:57:40 pm »
I am not gonna start yet another post about how good or evil  the Dominicans are. I never considered myself an expert on the things Dominican. The point a was making (which you totally missed) is simple:
There is nothing unique in the way Dominicans are trying to hook the stupid gringo. People are doing it all over the world, I know! However, most of the horror stories here, with the very few exceptions simply prove my point: (And we didn't even hear the other site yet)
The relationships were started by both sites being sincere and honest.
Problems started later, when the honeymoon is over and you must face the reality. Some people can do it, some can't. It has nothing to do with being Dominican, being married or being sankie. I don't think you have any idea (if I'm wrong, I apologize), how hard is it. You simply wouldn't be so cavalier about it.

 Miggy you're being very deep lately
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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
« Reply #46 on: March 26, 2010, 03:32:37 am »


 Miggy you're being very deep lately
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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
« Reply #47 on: March 26, 2010, 06:23:44 pm »


 Miggy you're being very deep lately

AND SWEETHEART!!!!! :angryfire:
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Well I have been warn not to say that anymore... I think I will keep my  :-X from now on
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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
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« Reply #49 on: July 27, 2010, 01:52:07 pm »

I like what you said here.Life isn't a bowl of cherries.People have to work everywhere, especially here.Its not like that in DR because you can live with relatives but here you can't.You need $$$ to pay those bills.
About relationships, you win some and lose some.Hopefully, the people we chose are trustworthy and everthing that you describe Miguelito. Its not just DR, its with whomever you marry from whatever country.
I love DR and I love the people from there.There are good and bad everyplace.




Quote from: miguelito link=topic=7494.msg180836#msg180836
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I agree!
Only I don't think the booklet will do much good.
Instead, I would like to see more of the success stories posted
on our site. That stories does not make much of sensation and ratings, but they do help
people to form the balanced, unbiased opinion of Dominican life and Dominican people.
Let's hear more from Caro and Ramon, Yessi and Eri, Scott and Marla and many many more.
And us too, Erenia and Miguelito.
Our live together is nothing, like a bowl full of cherries. We both work hard, trying to make an ends meet. Barely have a time for each other (we both are not a spring chiken anymore). But there is something in our relationships, that makes it work. Besides the love, there is a deep, profound trust to each other (even though, she is jealous like a wild cat!!!!! :pissed:)
Nothing in the world will make us betray that trust...

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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
« Reply #50 on: August 09, 2010, 09:05:54 am »
Wow this dating site has lots of hot sankettes  :o :o  :loved:
« Last Edit: August 09, 2010, 09:12:28 am by OptimusP »

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« Reply #51 on: August 09, 2010, 02:25:19 pm »
Wow this dating site has lots of hot sankettes  :o :o  :loved:

Takes one to know one!
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« Reply #52 on: August 09, 2010, 03:02:58 pm »
Wow this dating site has lots of hot sankettes  :o :o  :loved:

Takes one to know one!

Its clearly a mail order brides site, sankettes looking to hook up with a gringo and of course pa mangar una visa  :slap: :beathorse:

The website its fine but Its only for gringos, doesn't apply to Caribbean dudes with no $$$$$ in the bank
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Re: Guys! If you are single and looking for a Dominicana, check this.
« Reply #53 on: August 09, 2010, 06:00:07 pm »
Wow this dating site has lots of hot sankettes  :o :o  :loved:

Takes one to know one!

Its clearly a mail order brides site, sankettes looking to hook up with a gringo and of course pa mangar una visa  :slap: :beathorse:

The website its fine but Its only for gringos, doesn't apply to Caribbean dudes with no $$$$$ in the bank
How dare you say that, don't you see these are serious church going women  :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
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« Reply #54 on: August 09, 2010, 08:06:06 pm »
Wow this dating site has lots of hot sankettes  :o :o  :loved:

Takes one to know one!

Its clearly a mail order brides site, sankettes looking to hook up with a gringo and of course pa mangar una visa  :slap: :beathorse:

The website its fine but Its only for gringos, doesn't apply to Caribbean dudes with no $$$$$ in the bank

did u mangaste tu visa too?   ??? :-X

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« Reply #55 on: August 13, 2010, 11:09:42 am »
 :o ...WOW!

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« Reply #56 on: August 13, 2010, 02:47:27 pm »
:o ...WOW!

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« Reply #58 on: August 02, 2013, 11:11:01 pm »
is this true you can only marry twice the 3rd time they will deny your application ?? they deny my buddy
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« Reply #59 on: August 03, 2013, 12:19:58 am »
is this true you can only marry twice the 3rd time they will deny your application ?? they deny my buddy
Most likely yes. By the third time they think you could be in it because someone is paying you to do it or something. But if he got denied, he should immediately reapply. He has a good chance of getting approved the second time around.

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