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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #120 on: August 13, 2010, 01:58:28 pm »
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Look this is getting way out of control!  You guys don't even know the whole stroy and I don't care to give it, but some of you just won't leave it alone.  So I will explain.  Platana and I are friends, but her sister is actually my BFF and I went to DR with HER and Planata came down a week later.  Platana's sister and I had a falling out last summer because of something that had to do with me and her and not so much Richie.  We stopped talking for a couple of months.  But then things got better between us.  Platana called me last January to tell me what she heard about Richie telling everyone in DR that he was using me to be with his ex girfriend.  I took all that info and kept in the back of my head and never forgot about it.  I never stopped talking to her or her family and still see them.  In fact, I am going to see them at a party tomorrow. 

Now I know why people on here don't say when things go sour!   :beathorse:  Many of you guys totally ragged on me and turned this into a gossip session and I don't need this right now.

Like I said...I AM GETTING A DIVORICE so I don't know why you guys think that I am not doing anything about it....


Whoa there, calm down. People have only been concerned about the situation and people have never been wild about Richie. Don't you think you should be thankful to be on a site where people are on YOUR side? Despite the  :redflag: that people had seen before, no one is knocking you down, only confirming the fact that this guy is a MESS that NEVER deserved you. So, what are you getting so upset about? Over the fact that people were wondering if Platana had hooked you both up? That's not a big deal and people are free to think and wonder whatever they wanted. If it has turned into a gossip fest it is because no one understood nor knew the entire story.

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #120 on: August 13, 2010, 01:58:28 pm »

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #121 on: August 14, 2010, 02:13:31 am »


And my observation is that I contrast that with the CRAZY stories I read of genuine people in genuine relationships that get CRAZY rejections when they go through AOS because USCIS says they don't have a real marriage in spite of ALL KINDS of evidence.

So here is this bum and everyone is saying how chances are even though he's being reported to the gov't. they can't be bothered to deport him.  And here's people with legitimate marriages and they go to AOS and get insulted by the same gov't. authorities and told they are NOT in a legitimate marriage and are NOT getting their AOS approved.

Well you sure as hell didn't read about rejected AOS on THIS site. To my knowledge we have NEVER had a rejected AOS on this site in the 5 years we have been here. This crap just doesn't happen and I don't want anyone thinking it does.

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #122 on: August 18, 2010, 08:40:02 pm »


And my observation is that I contrast that with the CRAZY stories I read of genuine people in genuine relationships that get CRAZY rejections when they go through AOS because USCIS says they don't have a real marriage in spite of ALL KINDS of evidence.

So here is this bum and everyone is saying how chances are even though he's being reported to the gov't. they can't be bothered to deport him.  And here's people with legitimate marriages and they go to AOS and get insulted by the same gov't. authorities and told they are NOT in a legitimate marriage and are NOT getting their AOS approved.

Well you sure as hell didn't read about rejected AOS on THIS site. To my knowledge we have NEVER had a rejected AOS on this site in the 5 years we have been here. This crap just doesn't happen and I don't want anyone thinking it does.

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #123 on: September 08, 2012, 08:12:24 pm »
Hi all, this is Megan28..I'm now logged in as megans because I forgot my user name and password but I found this thread and wanted to give an update.  I am now divorced as of May of this year.  I'm sure many of you are surprised because many of you thought I wouldn't go through with it.  He received his permenant green card back in July. We still remain in contact and he is involved in Brianna's life and pays child support.  So far things are good and I hope they continue this way.

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #124 on: September 08, 2012, 09:23:37 pm »
Megan

Glad to hear from you again. Its not an easy process but I am glad that you were able to find a solution and that he is still involved in yur daughter's life. good luck
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #125 on: September 09, 2012, 06:15:59 am »
Good to hear from you Megan. Hope everything continues on a good track for you. Stick around!

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #126 on: September 10, 2012, 05:33:06 am »
Hola Megan! Glad to read that all is well with you and your daughter. I commend you for your positive attitude and making the right decision for your daughter.  ;)

 

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