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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #20 on: July 24, 2010, 12:20:22 pm »
Men get away with paying no child support ALL THE TIME ..

They get off the book jobs, have no accounts, get no license .. Keeping him here will no ensure child support or any type of visitation

If she is getting a divorce state you want full custody and be done with it .

I get child support ... A nice amount because it is their responsibility to pay .. They also have to keep medical going .. But it's a on the books job .. And it's the percentage allowed by law

If she doesn't need his money then more power to her .. Just get the full custody and let him be

Report what you have to report .. Call the cops and get him removed

It can happen to ANYONE ..
I had to at one point call a male friend while ex was at work .. Change the locks and shut all windows .. When he couldn't get in I called the cops to remove him from the premises .. If you are scared for you and your child's safety you need to stick to that
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #21 on: July 24, 2010, 12:45:56 pm »
It will be very hard to get child support from someone who lives and works off the grid. If he doesn't want to be found, he won't be found.

The only reason I found Edward is because he is an ass and made a few small mistakes. But the effort to find them is strenuous and stressful.---with a newborn, you do not need that stress.

I hope you are able to get him out of the country, but I am sure it will be very difficult to do. At the last minute new "friends" come out of the woodwork to "help" them.
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #22 on: July 24, 2010, 03:50:55 pm »
I called the police and they said that he can not be removed from the house because we are married. He hasnt been abusive either so they said I would have to use the family courts and get a divorice. He keeps saying he is sorry and he doesn't want to loose me, but the harsh truth is he doesn't want to loose his GC!
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #23 on: July 24, 2010, 06:08:36 pm »
I called the police and they said that he can not be removed from the house because we are married. He hasnt been abusive either so they said I would have to use the family courts and get a divorice. He keeps saying he is sorry and he doesn't want to loose me, but the harsh truth is he doesn't want to loose his GC!
You don't think cheating on you and using you to get his green card is abuse?.

There are many types of abuse, you know.

If you really wanted to get him out of the house you would.

You wouldn't be the first nor last woman that makes a man to be forced out of their house if you really wanted to.

I think it's time for me to start a new thread, titled:

WOMEN of DTTUSA, STOP THINKING WITH YOUR VAGINAS!!!!!!!!!!.
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #24 on: July 24, 2010, 06:12:28 pm »
Such a sad situation. Sorry to hear about this. I hope u can soon get him out of the house so that you can move on. Good luck to you!
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #25 on: July 24, 2010, 06:18:45 pm »
Thanks guys for all the support.  :luv:

El Duro, I thought about asking people to physically remove him from my house but I don't want things to get out of control because we have a baby now and he threatend to take the baby away from me.
I don't know how old you are but you sound like a very young girl.

There's not way in hell he can take your baby away. All he is doing is playing with your head. All men say the same shit and believe me most don't mean it. All he is doing is trying to scare you and it's working.

What does having a baby have to do with anything?.

The moment he cheated on you any respect you had for him should go out the window.

Sometimes it makes me wonder if the women that post here have any brothers or male friends.

If you were my sister, I SWEAR TO GOD, that I would get a few of my male friends, kick his ass and then throw him out of the house.

If for whatever reason the cops say he can't be forced out, I would move in with a few male friends and make his life miserable until he move out himself.
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #26 on: July 24, 2010, 06:23:14 pm »
There's not way in hell he can take your baby away. All he is doing is playing with your head. All men say the same shit and believe me most don't mean it. All he is doing is trying to scare you and it's working.

Totally agree.  That would be a cold day in hell the day that would happen, and you must be very naive to believe him.  He is using you and manipulating the situation to his advantage.  But now that you have a daughter in the picture, YOU HAVE TO STAND YOUR GROUND!!!

IT'S YOUR DAUGHTER, IT'S YOUR HOUSE.  GO IN THERE WHILE HE IS AT WORK AND CHANGE THE LOCKS.  ITS REALLY NOT THAT SERIOUS, AND WHEN HE COMES HOME CALL THE COPS AND IT WILL WORK LIKE A CHARM. 

Stop feeding into that negativity, you have more important things to worry about, like raising your daughter!  Good luck to you!

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #27 on: July 24, 2010, 07:15:11 pm »
Megan, sweetie, number 1, I am so sorry you are going through this. Hate to repeat what everyone else said but everyone had their redflags about him but you would not hear anyone out. The past is the past but I COMMEND you for sharing your story. This should awaken others when they shun the advice of all. You are a beautiful girl and I hope and pray that you do not soften your heart and take this piece of mierda back. He OBVIOUSLY does not love nor respect you OR his daughter. I always had a bad feeling when I would recall the hell you went thru when the visa would not come in. I always wondered if that was a sign for you to rethink things. Did you ever see signs? Wish I lived closer to send my ghetto Mexican familia to roll up on his ass. I am here for you girl. Keep your head up!

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #28 on: July 24, 2010, 07:49:15 pm »
This gets me angry, what an ass. You should send him back but do what is in your heart.  Am sorry about this sad and dificult situation but remember everything happens for a reason.  You should leave the revenge to God and not dirty your heart with this wearthless man.  Remember that sooner or later they all pay for their wrong doings. 

How did you find out about this?  Make sure you keep or find proof that can be used against him in case you need to. 

From now on focus on you and your child moving on in life without him, and if you don't need him it's best you don't depend on him for anything.  Not even child support, if you got enough money do it on your own.

I see you've got family to turn to and that's good, it means you are not alone and you really don't need him.  As for him being in his daughters life, don't deny him that if he want to be in her life.  If not then don't sweat it your daughter doesn't need that type of father and it might be even better for her to not have him in her life but just make sure you don't deny her her father.

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #29 on: July 24, 2010, 08:25:35 pm »
Richie has been cheating on me and he told the girl our marriage was a buisness deal. I want to send him back. He is in my house and won't leave. I am at my mother's for now. I have already called and reported him but they say it could take a long time. What do I do. We have a 3 month old and I am very scared. What a nightmare! Please help!

How the heck did you find out about this one  ???

Really! you want to send him back, unfortunately you cant do it just like that.

He can choose to stay in the house as long as he pleases, because youre still married to him and theres nothing authority can do if theres no domestic abuse.

He only has to proof he entered the marriage in good faith and not PA MANGAR UNA VISA there's nothing USCIS can do if they cannot prove otherwise.

3 months old child, I feel for you, Just get a divorce hopefully you'll get full custody.

You should pay more attention to details next time  :domrep:
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #30 on: July 24, 2010, 08:29:52 pm »
Could this be the person that "Only If" was referring to?

Megan, how could you not notice the signs mami? I mean, I could imagine that this behavior didn't come out of nowhere, out of the blue. If he's dating another girl I could imagine there was a lack of sex, time together, and not to mention he was probably not as affectionate as before. (I think all women should analyze all this while in relationships with Dominicans that come straight out the boat, especially when THEY were the ones that brought them.)

Ennovi I must disagree with you, I don't think that only NON dominican women don't get it. Men are slick and it could happen to ANYONE. You never know.

Megan, I hope that you are able to get this man out of your house soon, but I don't think you should have him deported. After all, you didn't make that baby on your own, and from DR he's not going to be much help to you financially, and its not fair for your daughter either to not have her father around. Whatever goes on between you two, has no reason to affect her, you have to leave her our of this.

Good luck with whatever you choose to do.

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He should be sent back if he said the marriage was a business deal
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #31 on: July 24, 2010, 08:39:24 pm »
He should, but do you really think that his GF is going to be willing to testify that he said this? Let's be real, they're not going to shit if doesn't have proof, and if he doesn't abuse her, and there's no GF willing to sign an affidavit, how do you think she's gonna get him deported.

I hate to be a glumy guss, but there have been other members on this site trying to get their Sr. Sankies out of the land of the free, and they have proof and documentation, what makes you think she'll be able to get him deported, with NOTHING on her side? No, not gonna happen :rollseyes:
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #32 on: July 24, 2010, 08:50:01 pm »
He should, but do you really think that his GF is going to be willing to testify that he said this? Let's be real, they're not going to shit if doesn't have proof, and if he doesn't abuse her, and there's no GF willing to sign an affidavit, how do you think she's gonna get him deported.

I hate to be a glumy guss, but there have been other members on this site trying to get their Sr. Sankies out of the land of the free, and they have proof and documentation, what makes you think she'll be able to get him deported, with NOTHING on her side? No, not gonna happen :rollseyes:

She probably tapped his phone  ??? 

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« Reply #33 on: July 24, 2010, 08:53:16 pm »
Well if she did let's hope that she saved the recording.
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #34 on: July 24, 2010, 09:02:52 pm »
Well if she did let's hope that she saved the recording.

The title should be I've been used PA MANGAR UNA VISA  :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #35 on: July 25, 2010, 04:47:08 am »
Hay Dios MIo Optimus.... I was in DR recently and I heard this song, I was really digusted by it, funny how they are willing to make a song out of this.  But anyways the possibility of having him deported is unlikey or even collecting child support. If you don't need his money even better, just file a divorce and he will remain illegal in this country.  Think about it he will never be able to go back and see his family or anyone over there.  Is his girlfriend living in the states???
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #36 on: July 25, 2010, 05:21:54 am »
Richie has been cheating on me...
Yes, he has and for quite some time, but what is done is done. Now you are the one left behind holding the baby. There are many, many things running through your mind, and now is the time to think positive about you and your baby! This is not going to be a quick fix, so let time heal all wounds. Megan, good luck and know that you have a good amount of support.

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #37 on: July 25, 2010, 05:47:50 am »
Well if she did let's hope that she saved the recording.

The title should be I've been used PA MANGAR UNA VISA  :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

you and your mangar visa phrase is getting tiresome now.... can you just stay quiet if you have nothing worthwhile to say?
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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #38 on: July 25, 2010, 08:05:34 am »
Could this be the person that "Only If" was referring to?




I think so too andrelly.

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Re: I Think I've Been Used
« Reply #39 on: July 25, 2010, 09:01:52 am »
Okay let me now give all the details. Back in November, he went to see his ex-girlfriend who lives a couple of towns over. That should be have a big red flag, but I couldn't prove he really went to see her because he is friends with her brother. At first, he didn't even tell me he went, but in his wallet I found a train ticket, a condom, and his wedding ring!  Then I recieved a very informative phone call from a friend (who is also a member on here) that Richie was telling people in DR that he was using me to get here to be with his ex-girlfriend.
 
 So I let it go because I was 4 months preggo at the time and I really didn't have proof, or maybe I just didn't want to beleive it.

Okay lets fast forward to about 2 weeks ago. He went to a party by himself because I didn't want to go because of the baby. So, I drove him there because he doesn't have a car or his licesnse. In the meantime, we have been having more  problems. So 2 nights after the party, he deciedes he wants to sleep in the baby's room. He had been texting more and on the phone late at night. I went to check his phone while he was in the shower and he jumped out of the shower to take the phone away, but I saw a picture of a girl in her bathing suit. He said she was just a friend, but 2 days later a found messages that said besome, abrazome, or however you say it. So I took down the number and called the girl. She was totally surprized.  She said they only saw each other once after the party, at a carnival which I had been asking him to go with me all week, but we never went.  He went with HER instead  :beathorse:
 
She told me he told her that the marriage was a business deal for him to come here and that I have a boyfriend here, and that we only had sex twice and I accidently got pregnant and that our baby is 10 months old! (she is only 3 months!) What scares me more than anything is all of the lies he told her.  If he is telling her that then how many lies has he told me. And I know she is telling the truth because they were on the phone and she connected me in on the call.
 
His only defense for the whole thing is that he never had sex with her, but that is because I stopped before anything could really happen. By the way, she is only 17. She says she will help me out in anyway I need, but she says that if I deport him she would feel like it's her fault.  
 
I know this is a lot of babbling but there is a lot of stuff and my computer is broken so sorry for bad the typing.
 
Thanks for listening my DTTUSA family!  :luv:
3/23/07- Met
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1/28/09- Received Letter from NVC with SDO Case #
4/22/09- CITA!!! / APPROVED!!!
6/9/09- Picked up visa
6/11/09- POE at JFK

 

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